If you want something not a lot of people get, you have to do things not a lot of people do.
If people look at you strangely for the things you do, you may well be on the right track.
Or not…
But of course you can’t know unless you try.
Let everyone else do what is normal; they are running millions of experiments for you that you are welcome to observe and learn from.
While they’re doing that, you may as well run some experiments of your own.
What remarkable result do you want to create in the world?
And what is the thing you will do that people will ‘remark’ upon? (Whether they are being judgy or not in their remarks doesn’t matter- it still fits the definition of remarkable!)
Dare to do things vastly differently and you will have a life vastly different to anyone else.