Where does self esteem come from?
How do you get esteem for yourself?
It comes from doing what you say you’re going to do. This sense of certainty that you’re a person of your word.
Better still, to do what you’re say you’re going to do when no one else is watching.
And better than that, to never tell a soul you did the thing.
When only you know. That’s how you build self esteem.