What are the kinds of people you want in your life?
One strategy is to switch all the people out in some sort of mass ‘recast’.
Another option is to treat them the way you want them to be.
Do you want a best friend who is reliable, loving and attentive? Cast them in that role and let them live into that identity.
Want to be married to a queen? Treat her like one.
Want kids who are curious, kind and energetic?
You get it.